Last night, the Women’s Summit hosted a community conversation at the new UNC Charlotte Center City Building. The conversation was hosted by Activist in Residence, writer and editor, Jennifer Baumgardner and featured a distinguished panel.
The idea behind last night’s event was to bring together women and men of all ages to talk about feminism, what it means to them, and how they view the role and work of feminism. Not everyone in the room was a self-described feminist and there were more than a few reluctant or unintentional feminists. There were even a few new converts, I think. In that regard, I kind of felt like we were hosting a revival. (Now there’s an idea….)
Our conversation was wide-ranging and covered much ground. Panel and audience members were asked questions such as “Tell us about your ‘feminist click’ or the incident or incidents that made you realize you needed to do work around women’s issues?” and “How do you define feminism?”
A couple of things struck me during the evening:
- The definition of feminism is broadening and becoming increasingly inclusive. In fact, maybe there isn’t one definition of feminism… maybe feminism can be defined by each one of us. Maybe that is the point of feminism.
- Feminism is about every person deserving “respect, dignity and equal access.”
- Feminism isn’t just for women – it’s for everyone.
- Feminism is about having choices to live your lives according to your talents and your interests.
- People experience live according to intersections of gender, race and socio-economic status.
One of my favorite questions came from a Queen’s University student who said that her friends didn’t understand what being a feminist meant – her friends thought that one couldn’t be a feminist and chose to be a stay at home mom. Her question was “Can feminism be softened?” and the resounding response was “yes.” One panelist voiced her thought that “Motherhood IS activism.” It’s all about having the choice to be who you are, to live in accordance with who you are.
We were also challenged not to be complacent and to expect others to speak on our behalf, particularly in government. Mention was made about recent legislation in the State of North Carolina that will significantly impact women and we were vehemently implored to take more notice of what is going on in the political arena, particularly given the dearth of women in elected office at all levels.
We talked about how feminism benefits men; how it can free men from binding stereotypes that aren’t really reflective who they really are.
If you attended last night’s Community Conversation, what are your thoughts and responses? We’d love to hear from you.
And what do you think about organizing a feminist revival??? I’m kind of intrigued by the idea.